Much Ado About Sex And Love
Photo by Toa Heftiba on Unsplash “Sexual energy is just that, it’s energy. And where we choose to expend that energy makes all the difference in the world.” A while back, I was accosted by a man who professed his love for me and said that he wanted to marry me. First of all, we had only just met that day and he was already proposing marriage. If that’s the way it works, almost all matured ladies should be married by now. Secondly, he was married. And, I began to wonder the reason for him having a wife if he was still going to be sleeping around. Then, this made me remember what one of my colleagues once told me (which I still don’t believe). Paraphrasing him, he said, “God made man the way he is”. He also said, “Adultery is part of a man. And there is nothing that can be done about it”. Oh really? If there was nothing to be done abou...