Women's Issues

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"All females deserve menstrual well-being, and that includes knowledge and reassurance about her body from the earliest possible age." - Nikki Tajiri

A dear one and I were praising women on the things they do and go through. She said if they asked women to talk about their monthlies, they should talk about themselves as having 12 personalities because for most women, each month, comes with different symptoms. Then, she said, some ‘parents’ see these signs and they believe the child is possessed without knowing that it could be hormonal imbalance.
During this point, women exhibit different signs. Some might get moody, have breakouts, dysmenorrhea and so on. And during times like this, if you step on some of these women’s toes, aggression might be transferred to you. I know this is a woman’s businesss but, how does it affect you? Understanding people is key. And the same way you should understand people and temperaments is the same way you should understand genders (and their actions).
Now, it’s obvious that the way a woman is wired is different from that of men. But I still hear men saying they don’t know how to deal with their women. Well, there is no way you can relate with women if you don’t even have basic (general and specific) knowledge about them. From knowing who they are, you can then gain insights into how to relate better with the womenfolk (especially with your woman).
Till the next post, kept learning.
P.S: This isn’t an empowering post for women to be untoward.

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